Change When Needed

Today's lesson is more about acknowledging when your habits aren't healthy and actually DOING SOMETHING about it.
I also want to focus more on the relationship aspect of this - but this can be extrapolated in to all sorts of things. We have relationships with many things, not just between people.

So, really - GO OUT AND FIX YOUR SITUATION!
People are easily caught up in complaining. I get caught up too, so note that I write these blogs mostly to read over my own words later. To take my OWN ADVICE. Crazy concept, huh?

If there is something "wrong" in your life, do something about it - don't just sit there and accept that it's a lame part of life that you have to deal with day in and day out.
Mind you, "wrong" is in quotations for a reason. I try to remember that life goes the way it does for very specific reasons. There are very important lessons to learn from every day occurrences, and especially from the harder times in life. But I may be rationalizing my own frustrations here.
In any case, if you find something unpleasant about your day, do what you can to fix it. But it's ok to acknowledge that there are other factors contributing to your touchiness on the subjects.
Maybe going for a walk will help clear your mind and give you some perspective.
Not to mention, it's super healthy to go on walks - and maybe you are suffering from pent up energy most of all!
If you are around people you find to be "unhealthy" to your environment - get out! Put yourself around other people you enjoy being around. MAKE TIME FOR THOSE YOU ENJOY AND CARE ABOUT.
If you want your life to go in a particular direction, find like-minded people and ask them questions. How to get started? Where to seek information? How to deal?

If you truly do NOT want people who keep coming around uninvited, but you are too kind to say something - Face the fact that you need to say something. It's ok to stand up for yourself. If you find it easier to stand up for others than yourself, then pretend you at your core are your friend - and you really need that friend.

Have some self respect.

Go out and push yourself.

Challenge yourself and others to GROW.

Don't like your job? Get a new one. Sounds easier than it is? LIES! Manifest your bigger destiny!
Take little steps every day to make your situation better.
Other people want you to be happy. We really do. So stop settling for less when the world is always offering you more!

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